Nothing is good and bad in it's entirety
For some things you may feel happy or bad (e.g. Dhruti got admission to City Pride School). But this can't be termed as blessing or suffering. It's relative. Was feeling there is a Sanskrut subhashit for this but it turned out to be little different. Still copying here for archiving. उपकारोऽपि नीचानां अपकराय जायते | पय: पानं भुजङ्गानां केवलं विषवर्धनम् || Ref: Sanskrit Swyam Shikshak By: S. D. Satavlekar You have accept whatever comes to your way with open hands. With right attitude and hard work any hurdles could be overcome.